Category Gender

Always keeping things real…real talk

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Welcome and thank you for visiting.I’ve been working on this project since 2012, but I have been writing online since 2005.I’m still moved with genuine appreciation, when I see the website visitor stats and even more so, when I receive…

The marriage series – Forsaking all others

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* Is “our person” pre destined by Yeshua or do we meet them by determined courses of action or random coincidence?* Do we have to put the faith and effort into developing ourselves while we’re single, or is that not…

The marriage series – Distance and age gap relationships

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Opinions are like heartbeats, everyone alive, has one.However, it’s funny how some people’s opinions are revered while others are jeered.In order to learn more, we should try to put our prejudices aside and listen to what others have to say,…

For some

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For some, it’s due to my gender, being comfortable with my masculinity and loving being the man which Yeshua created me to be. For some, it’s due to the colour of my skin, being proud to be a straight Black…

The marriage series – Patriarchal naming

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Identity means a lot to ‘most’ people.It’s ‘usually’ a given that most balanced, rational and relational people like to know where they are coming from and who the relatives are, in their biological ancestral paternal & maternal family lines. There…

The marriage series – What is marriage?

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On the second of July, Lois and I reached our 28th year of marriage but have been together for 31 years.Back in 2012, when we were winding down our failing I.T. company and I was given the vision and inspiration…

The natural celibate (spiritual eunuch)

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A few months back a young woman tweeted that ‘marriage is not for everyone’.She was answered by a young guy who was in my network, who’s reply was ‘you’ve been lied to, it is for everyone’. So who was right?The…

The changing meaning of friendship

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Greetings readers. I know I’ve previously written a ‘short’ about friends and family but I would like to delve a little deeper into friendship.Whether we care to admit it or not, our views on friendships begin from our own experiences…

Women only

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Greetings ladies.I hope you are well.I know women can be inquisitive and ‘usually’ read more than men; which would mean, you may have already read my ‘Just for men’ post.As with the men on SM, especially Twitter, it’s my observation…

Just for men

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Greetings men.SM can be frustrating at times because I see so many cries for help from men, especially on Twitter.Some are direct and honest tweets but the rest are hidden within both the outrageous and the supposedly “funny” tweets.I also…

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