Father of eight

FSAC_FatherOfEight

Everyone has a story.Mankind likes to complicate matters and create additional problems in the process.When it comes to the biology and science, before the implementation of the microscope, microscope slides, Petri dish, syringe and pipette.Naturally, the sexual union of man and woman was and is still needed for procreation to occur, life to be formed, … Read more

More on communication

FSAC_Communication

We were created to be social beings and an essential part of social interaction involves communication.Human beings naturally ‘herd’ into like-minded groups, initially based on nationality, background, language and colour.However, many of us look deeper than surface distinctions, by actually ‘listening’, to the things people say, which highlight how they think.As well as the body … Read more

Age is just a number…or is it?

FFifty

It’s the dawn of my earthday/birthday, in thinking about the current climate, it appears that the majority are drinking the ‘cool aid’ which is being served by the current ‘allowed’ powers that be. Those who know, understand that we are witnessing the times that God foretold. We all have to find a way to ‘live’ … Read more

Obeying the ‘relationship’ early warning signs

Warning

“I don’t know what happened…he was fine before and as soon as we got married, he changed”. “In the early part of our relationship she was OK but as soon as we became more serious, she turned into a bunny-boiler”. “They are so possessive, I don’t have any room to breathe, they don’t want me … Read more

Why it takes a village – helping young adults to build good long-term relationships & marriage (Pt 1 of 2)

Before the obvious educational establishments, before the rise of the Internet Search Engines, books and libraries were used to increase humankind’s knowledge. Before that, it was word of mouth from family members and community elders, along with cave and wall paintings. Books have lasted the test of time and are still used by those seeking … Read more

Don’t Settle

We go through life with differing attitudes, our expectations can be positive, negative or a combination of both, depending on our past experiences, emotional/spiritual state and how we choose to deal with others. The saying “misery loves company”, is true, therefore it’s possible for miserable people to attract others and have a relationship. However, in … Read more

Love and colour

Occasionally you read an article or quote, or hear someone on TV say that they don’t see colour. I think it’s one of the most ridiculous things that anyone can say, in an attempt to seem inclusive and ‘non offensive’. It’s a fact of life, human beings, whether male or female, come in various shapes … Read more

Why it’s all about relationships

A few years back I was catching-up with one of my uncles, we began to talk on many of life’s issues (as we do) and he asked me what I was up to. He knew about our Cake business, but not much about FSAC, so I proceeded to share my passion about using my experiences … Read more

Our past

We all have one, lived at a variety of speeds, remembered clearly or selectively, with singular or repeated patterns and actions. Our past is a distinctive representation of what we have experienced (outside of our control) as well as what we did (by our own choices) with both positive and negative outcomes. Some want to … Read more

For Singles and Couples – An extended introduction

For Singles and Couples originally started as a ‘Blog category’ concerning relationships, on my previous BLOG, ‘Phil’s Lounge’. A fellow Blogger wrote a post concerning passion, which I identified with…there are a few things in life I feel apathetic about, however, as a passionate person, I feel strongly about many of the more important life … Read more