Loving and living with Phil Gayle

There is a lot of truth in your spouse being your best friend and fortunately for me I’ve married mine. I’m totally speaking for myself here but I knew that I had found ‘my person’ when we started dating, we were already good friends (we worked at the same place) and I didn’t see a … Read more

Taking a Selah moment

The word ‘Selah’ has been referenced in modern poetry and music but it’s earliest origins can be found in the book of Psalms. Psalms is a book of Prose, Poetry & Songs and the use of the word ‘Selah’ has often been interpreted as a verbal declaration to be repeated, when it is in fact … Read more

It’s important to remember

Having used many Social Media Platforms, interacted with other SM users and spoken to people who vehemently oppose the use of SM. The common thread would appear to be an acknowledgement that being online, in any capacity, requires a certain amount of boldness and a willingness to be (to whatever degree) exposed. Especially in cases … Read more

You

Uniquely woven, originating from love, truth and intelligence personified, the Beginning & the End. Child of the earth, descendant of father Adam & mother Eve. On your journey through life and through your process of development. It’s no accident that our paths have crossed. Ordained and pre-destined, our interactions, seen by Yeshua Adonai and penned … Read more

The For Singles And Couples YouTube Channel

If you’re familiar with this Blog you’ll know that I began blogging before the days of YouTube. Being an ex-IT pro, it would have been easy for me to get involved with YouTube from the onset, which would obviously mean, I would have had an established channel by now. However, my early blogging was so … Read more

An Editor, A Literary Agent, The Publisher and Dot Com only

Blog platforms like WordPress and Blogger and social media platforms, bring writers together along with the all important ‘readers’. Writing can be a very lonely art, especially if those you know (in real life) are not avid readers, or your subject matter, is of no interest to them. I’m so grateful for the people I … Read more

Why it takes a village – helping young adults to build good long-term relationships & marriage (Pt 1 of 2)

Before the obvious educational establishments, before the rise of the Internet Search Engines, books and libraries were used to increase humankind’s knowledge. Before that, it was word of mouth from family members and community elders, along with cave and wall paintings. Books have lasted the test of time and are still used by those seeking … Read more

Voting and the 2019 UK elections

The UK general elections are 5 days away and there’s a noticeable increase in the political debates in both the MM and on my SMP of choice, Twitter. In previous posts, I mentioned I would be writing a couple of political related posts both on the elections and the environment. However, after taking a little … Read more

The failure of the ‘type’

Human beings can be both fascinating and frustrating in equal measure, most are able to exercise our rights of ‘choice’, sometimes to our own detriment. On one hand, we have an ability to learn from mistakes, however, on the other, some repeatedly make intentional bad choices. People who are emotionally and mentally balanced, would consider … Read more

Never alone

The holiday season is a time when most slow down and begin to think about spending some quality time with friends and family. Life isn’t all about work and this may come as a shock to some…work and earning money is important but we can be rich in more ways than financially, there is actually … Read more

You know you’re ready

So you’re single and secure, you don’t have any baggage, you refuse to settle, you utilise your time constructively, you’re holistically developing yourself, you’ve acknowledged that you are in the 2nd state of being single, you have an understanding of what constitutes as real riches and you have the correct perspective of love and colour, … Read more