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I hope you have been looking after yourself and keeping safe. It’s that time of the year again, yes, elections. Like most, I’ve grown weary of trying to participate by voting, in the hope of making a change. I love the guys and girls on Twitter but I’ve been taking some time out to focus … Read more

Blog update – JetPack and Subscribers

Update

Some technical changes have been made to the For Singles And Couples (FSAC) Blog, returning to JetPack in the process. We don’t share our subscribers contact details with 3rd parties and we don’t SPAM. When you subscribe to this Blog, you only receive information pertaining to post or page updates. However, under these special circumstances, … Read more

Why it takes a village – (Part 2 of 2)

It Takes a Village

In part one, I covered some of our personal experiences and history. We take our parental role seriously and we understand that effective parenting and leadership, is about influence and motivation to positive action. Life has those unknown external elements which are beyond our immediate control; they usually occur through the actions of others. However, … Read more

Truth sayer or sooth sayer

Me and my bike

There was a time when people would say, “just tell me the truth, I can handle it”. As time goes by, those people appear to be at a premium, or they’ve decided to hit the mute button. Contemporary interactions tend to be filled with people willing to hit the mute or delete button when they … Read more

No 26-Wedding Anniversary

Phil and Lois Gayle

I hope you are doing well. We are living in, what I have been calling, interesting times. At the start of 2020 we heard about a virus which was sweeping through parts of Asia but didn’t think it would become as aggressive and as feared by a large percentage, as it has. Bible believing readers … Read more

Happy Fathers Day!

Fathers fist bump

To all my fellow fathers/dads… Who have seen the miracles God has given them, in watching the birth of their children. Who have looked at their babies with fascination and amazement. Who have, not only worked for their children, but have also been ‘there’ to look after, feed them and change their nappies. Who have … Read more

Times and Seasons, Life and Death

Four Seasons

I’m processing right now and taking a moment to share some thoughts. I’ve been working on chapters of the book(s), specifically looking at the parenting side of life as well as ethnicity and colour. I’ve written about my lack of relationship with both my dad and ex-step dad and I’ve also mentioned the relationship I’ve … Read more

Loving and living with Phil Gayle

There is a lot of truth in your spouse being your best friend and fortunately for me I’ve married mine. I’m totally speaking for myself here but I knew that I had found ‘my person’ when we started dating, we were already good friends (we worked at the same place) and I didn’t see a … Read more

Taking a Selah moment

The word ‘Selah’ has been referenced in modern poetry and music but it’s earliest origins can be found in the book of Psalms. Psalms is a book of Prose, Poetry & Songs and the use of the word ‘Selah’ has often been interpreted as a verbal declaration to be repeated, when it is in fact … Read more

It’s important to remember

Having used many Social Media Platforms, interacted with other SM users and spoken to people who vehemently oppose the use of SM. The common thread would appear to be an acknowledgement that being online, in any capacity, requires a certain amount of boldness and a willingness to be (to whatever degree) exposed. Especially in cases … Read more

You

Uniquely woven, originating from love, truth and intelligence personified, the Beginning & the End. Child of the earth, descendant of father Adam & mother Eve. On your journey through life and through your process of development. It’s no accident that our paths have crossed. Ordained and pre-destined, our interactions, seen by Yeshua Adonai and penned … Read more