Sharing more thoughts

Keep The Faith

Reflecting on life (and death) enables me to dig deep in my gratitude tank and pull out all the thanks and praise to He who is worthy of it. You will never hear me refer to anyone (who has to eat and use the bathroom just like me) as ‘his excellency’, ‘your royal highness’, ‘your … Read more

Exodus to the motherland, home before home

Exodus to the motherland

It’s been a minute. I hope you and yours are well. It has been a while, since my last post, the Blog may have been quiet but my life has most definitely not been. My account is still live on Twitter but YouTube have decided to remove my recent comments on other YouTubers channels. I’ve … Read more

Obeying the ‘relationship’ early warning signs

Warning

“I don’t know what happened…he was fine before and as soon as we got married, he changed”. “In the early part of our relationship she was OK but as soon as we became more serious, she turned into a bunny-boiler”. “They are so possessive, I don’t have any room to breathe, they don’t want me … Read more

From com to site, the journey continues

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Since my ‘News update post‘ we’ve had the completion of a few important elections world-wide. The election which ‘seemingly’ most of the world has been interested in, has been the US one. I stand by my tweet concerning that election and agree with most of what another Phil has to say on the matter. Making … Read more

Enemies of the Village – Relatives, frienemies and strangers with agendas

EnemiesOfTheVillage

IN CONTEXT Hopefully, you would have already read both ‘part 1’ and ‘part 2’ of the ‘It takes a village’ posts. Reading other posts, such as ‘It’s important to remember’ and ‘Love and colour’, are also relevant, as they give additional understanding for this real-life scenario, to be understood in the correct context. It’s obviously … Read more

Why it takes a village – (Part 2 of 2)

It Takes a Village

In part one, I covered some of our personal experiences and history. We take our parental role seriously and we understand that effective parenting and leadership, is about influence and motivation to positive action. Life has those unknown external elements which are beyond our immediate control; they usually occur through the actions of others. However, … Read more

Truth sayer or sooth sayer

Me and my bike

There was a time when people would say, “just tell me the truth, I can handle it”. As time goes by, those people appear to be at a premium, or they’ve decided to hit the mute button. Contemporary interactions tend to be filled with people willing to hit the mute or delete button when they … Read more

It’s important to remember

Having used many Social Media Platforms, interacted with other SM users and spoken to people who vehemently oppose the use of SM. The common thread would appear to be an acknowledgement that being online, in any capacity, requires a certain amount of boldness and a willingness to be (to whatever degree) exposed. Especially in cases … Read more

Why it takes a village – helping young adults to build good long-term relationships & marriage (Pt 1 of 2)

Before the obvious educational establishments, before the rise of the Internet Search Engines, books and libraries were used to increase humankind’s knowledge. Before that, it was word of mouth from family members and community elders, along with cave and wall paintings. Books have lasted the test of time and are still used by those seeking … Read more

The failure of the ‘type’

Human beings can be both fascinating and frustrating in equal measure, most are able to exercise our rights of ‘choice’, sometimes to our own detriment. On one hand, we have an ability to learn from mistakes, however, on the other, some repeatedly make intentional bad choices. People who are emotionally and mentally balanced, would consider … Read more

It’s not in the stars

Many see them as a joke; some think there may be something in them, while others allow their lives to be completely dictated by them. There are some who believe that their personality and character types are determined by the time, day and month they were born. Some also hold to the belief that the … Read more

The Quotient-Quadrant

Many have heard about IQ and over recent years there has been a greater emphasis placed on EQ. However, as human beings, we have more to us, we have a full quotient-quadrant which also comprises of the SQ and PQ. In order to be “balanced”, we have to place equal importance and emphasis on the … Read more