Friendship first


Greetings reader.I hope you are well. Lois and I recently watched an Amazon Prime show ‘The one who got away’.As with all these relationship reality TV shows, it was edited/scripted more for the entertainment value, rather than a sincere desire to assist the participants, with the relationship decision making process.Also, as with most contemporary TV … Read more

Times and Seasons Life and Death 3

Four Seasons

Hello. Related posts…Part 1 | Part 2 | Part 2 Update Part of the circle of life, includes the sadness and devastating trauma of death.Losing a loved one affects people in different ways.Some shut down, some shut themselves away, some use the drug of alcohol in an attempt to numb the pain, some walk around … Read more

The changing meaning of friendship


Greetings readers. I know I’ve previously written a ‘short’ about friends and family but I would like to delve a little deeper into friendship.Whether we care to admit it or not, our views on friendships begin from our own experiences within our family life and upbringing from childhood.Some people can jump between family and friends, … Read more

The case of


Hi, I hope all is well with you and your loved ones.I’ve been thinking a lot about people, as I do, about what motivates someone to visit a website, slow down to read the information and (if able to) leave a comment.The word which comes to mind is ‘interest’, where people are interested, they will … Read more

Know the enemy


Greetings (Salamu).I hope you are well and looking after yourself holistically.Regular visitors know, I share because I care, I’m an expressive communicator, who believes that we can do one of two things, with our universal experiences.Selfishly attempt to keep them to ourselves or share them, in the hope of helping others going through similar situations; … Read more

Women only


Greetings ladies.I hope you are well.I know women can be inquisitive and ‘usually’ read more than men; which would mean, you may have already read my ‘Just for men’ post.As with the men on SM, especially Twitter, it’s my observation that women display similar frustrations and ‘seemingly’, a search for answers…well the brave and the … Read more

Just for men


Greetings men.SM can be frustrating at times because I see so many cries for help from men, especially on Twitter.Some are direct and honest tweets but the rest are hidden within both the outrageous and the supposedly “funny” tweets.I also see some truth/wisdom gems, from men and depending on who they are, the responses to … Read more

Relationship vs Religion – The comparisons


Greetings dear readers.This post was originally intended to be the last part of part 3.Due to the length of the post (and series) I emotionally wrestled with continuing to lengthen part 3, or create an additional post.Obviously, after trusting and believing that the readers of part 1, part 2 and part 3 would ‘finish’ what … Read more

Relationship vs Religion – Part 3 of 3


Welcome.I hope and pray you are well.This is the final part of my ‘Religious expose’ series “Relationship vs Religion”.It’s another post which requires the reader to make some time for.If you haven’t already done so, please read Part 1 and Part 2 first, to bring this post into context.This post does contain re-caps with more … Read more

Persecution or tribulation, it’s really semantics


Many people call themselves Christians, it’s a term freely used, especially in the so-called ‘West’ in reference to filling out all sorts of application forms.Used by people, not wanting to seem like an UN-Godly heathen (by ticking ‘none’), those not wanting to be grouped with the other religious categories as well as true believers.Besides, in … Read more